The very limited proof that is available on the relationship between pleasure during sex and penis size comes from research conducted on vaginal orgasm. The two concerned studies reveal that women who opt for deeper vaginal stimulation prefer longer penises. But vaginal orgasms in women are a rarity with most women experiencing clitoral orgasm. The conclusion arrived at in these two studies was that penis size was in no way related to clitoral orgasm.

Moreover, the clitoral tissue is known to be present below the skin on each side of the vagina. It could be one of the factors that contribute to experiences of vaginal orgasm. In such circumstances, the role that penis size plays over here is one of eliciting pleasure. For the small number of women who are able to achieve their climax from vaginal penetration, studies reveal that penis length is never a deciding factor.

Apart from a boost in confidence, a larger penis doesn’t mean better sexual performance. Women are more into the hardness of the erection and the girth of the penis and not just the size of the man’s penis always. Also emotional bond is of extremely significance in any sexual relationship.

Fact: In fact, a larger penis can lead to the difficulty between partners during anal and oral sex.

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The lady knows she’s hot. Satisfied women don’t suffer from low self-esteem—four in five think their partners find them extremely sexy. If you want a confident sexual partner, never criticize other women’s bodies. She’ll worry about how you feel about hers. She won’t feel comfortable showing you her body if she’s worried you’ll think she’s fat, ugly, or full of cellulite.The lady will be expressive about her needs, satisfied women know what they want, and 87 percent will express it.

A woman who is comfortable asking for what she wants is going to be orgasmic more of the time. Encourage her openness by increasing sex talk in nonsexual situations. But be sure to look out for nonverbal cues, too. If the lady keeps touching you gently, for example, do that to her too. Pleasure’s the Goal, sounds crazy, but it’s true: Orgasm isn’t essential to a woman’s sexual satisfaction. Three out of four women say the pleasure from sex makes orgasm less necessary.

So relax—your laid-back approach can put her more at ease, making her likely to climax. “The more you try to focus on orgasm, the more you scare it away,” Instead, attend to her without that Big-O-or-Big-Zero attitude.Women don’t love sex only for the orgasms, They love it because it brings the couple “closer together”.

Penis Size just doesn’t matter! The cliché is true: It is how you use it. Only 7 percent of sexually satisfied women say penis size is critical to their pleasure. The other 93 percent say they can be satisfied in other ways. It the hardness and girth that matter more to women than the size of the penis. Passion is what keeps women coming back for more. They were 10 times as likely to rank both passion and generosity as more important than penis size.

Dr. Sharmila Majumdar, M.S. sexuality, M.Phil clinical psychology, PhD Cognitive Behavior Modification, Certified by Mount Sinai School of Medicine, USA in treatment resistant depression.

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