The lady knows she’s hot. Satisfied women don’t suffer from low self-esteem—four in five think their partners find them extremely sexy. If you want a confident sexual partner, never criticize other women’s bodies. She’ll worry about how you feel about hers. She won’t feel comfortable showing you her body if she’s worried you’ll think she’s fat, ugly, or full of cellulite.The lady will be expressive about her needs, satisfied women know what they want, and 87 percent will express it.

A woman who is comfortable asking for what she wants is going to be orgasmic more of the time. Encourage her openness by increasing sex talk in nonsexual situations. But be sure to look out for nonverbal cues, too. If the lady keeps touching you gently, for example, do that to her too. Pleasure’s the Goal, sounds crazy, but it’s true: Orgasm isn’t essential to a woman’s sexual satisfaction. Three out of four women say the pleasure from sex makes orgasm less necessary.

So relax—your laid-back approach can put her more at ease, making her likely to climax. “The more you try to focus on orgasm, the more you scare it away,” Instead, attend to her without that Big-O-or-Big-Zero attitude.Women don’t love sex only for the orgasms, They love it because it brings the couple “closer together”.

Penis Size just doesn’t matter! The cliché is true: It is how you use it. Only 7 percent of sexually satisfied women say penis size is critical to their pleasure. The other 93 percent say they can be satisfied in other ways. It the hardness and girth that matter more to women than the size of the penis. Passion is what keeps women coming back for more. They were 10 times as likely to rank both passion and generosity as more important than penis size.

Dr. Sharmila Majumdar, M.S. sexuality, M.Phil clinical psychology, PhD Cognitive Behavior Modification, Certified by Mount Sinai School of Medicine, USA in treatment resistant depression.

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1.  Men have more of them. Nearly a quarter of men claim to orgasm once a day, compared to just 15% of women.
2.  Duration varies in both sexes: The duration of orgasm varies for males and females. For females, the average orgasm lasts between six and 10 seconds. If a lady is lucky, it can last for as long as 20 seconds. Among men, it’s much less than that of their female partners. It’s a meagre four to five seconds. Not so great an orgasm-fact for men, right?
3.  Some women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. This isn’t particularly surprising when you consider the fact that brain scanning studies have found that nipple stimulation activates the same region of the brain as stimulation of the clitoris and vagina.
4.  The rule of thumb: the distance between a woman’s clitoris and vaginal opening predicts her likelihood of orgasm during vaginal intercourse. When the distance is smaller (generally less than the width of a thumb), she is more likely to reach orgasm because the clitoris gets more stimulation by being closer to the action.
5.  The coital alignment technique has been shown scientifically to increase the odds of simultaneous orgasm during penile-vaginal intercourse.
6.  On an average, it takes about 4 minutes for men to reach orgasm and about 10-20 minutes for women.
7.  Frequent orgasms are associated with better health. In fact, some research even suggests that orgasm may provide a boost to the immune system.
8.  Orgasms stimulate the same area of the brain as does heroin in an addict’s brain, strongly suggesting that sex can be addictive.
9.  The duration of an orgasm tends to decrease as a person ages.
10.  Women who feel less secure in their relationship are less likely to orgasm.
11.  Around 75% of women need clitoral stimulation and are unable to orgasm through intercourse alone.

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