Women are verbal at heart, and sexual communication is very important to them. Though what excites them is drastically different from what arouses men. If you can paint a picture with a few choice words, you can turn them on. So it’s in the men’s best interests to learn to say the right things. With that in mind, here are the best things to say to a lady during or before foreplay.
1. I want to give you pleasure- Simple, yet effective. A wonderful way to relax her and reassure her that she made the right decision going to bed with you. Say this right before or during foreplay for maximum effect.
2. You have such a hot, choose a body part she is proud of body- Pick a favorite body part to mention, but make it one you know she’s proud of. That way, there’s no controversy. Women are notorious for being sensitive to clumsy compliments about their bodies, so tread carefully.
3. What are you imagining right now? This will encourage her to talk about her sexual desires and participate in setting the mood. The idea here is to let her release any bottled-up fantasies that she would otherwise not mention.
4. This feels so good. I love it when you hug me, kiss me, etc. Again, this is meant to boost her comfort level with a little positive feedback. And if she knows you like something, perhaps she’ll take note for future reference.
5. Your skin is so soft and smooth. Ladies spend a lot of time rubbing things on their bodies after a shower. It’s time men appreciated this ritual with a well-placed compliment. Because this is a seductive remark, it’s best to say it before sex.
6. I want to kiss you all over. Women love foreplay and they love to be pampered. What you’re telling her is that you love and appreciate all of her. It’s very comforting to hear.
7. I’ve never felt this good before. Women love to be singled out as special, and unique. If she does something to you in bed that has never been done so pleasurably before, tell her sincerely.
8. You’re so hot!” Straightforward is often the best way to go. And swearing is one way to tell her that you really mean it. Women do respect it.
9. Dirty TalkThere are two ways to talk dirty: aggressive and tame.Aggressive, in which you order her around a bit. You must start small and feed off of her reactions and replies.Tame, in which you comment on her body and things you imagine doing to her without using any derogatory words.

Be sure to gauge how she reacts to what you say and you will have a very happy lady who in turn keeps you happy, that is the power of Sexual communication!!!

Dr. Sharmila Majumdar: M.S. Sexuality, M.Phil Clinical Psychology, PhD Cognitive Behavior Modification, Certified in Treatment Resistant Depression from Mount Sinai School of Medicine, Buffalo, USA